If you want to keep your relationship intact, you have to be honest with yourself about your behavior. Are you: Finding excuses to go over to her parents' house?
Men often look at a partner’s mother to see how their partner might age. If the mother has aged exceptionally well, it can create a confusing "cross-wire" in the brain where you’re seeing the peak version of your partner's DNA right in front of you. My Girlfriend-s Mom Is Much Finer than Her- So ...
If the attraction is becoming an obsession or making you feel genuine guilt, dial back the "family time." You don’t have to go to every Sunday brunch. Create a little breathing room until the "novelty" of the mother’s appearance wears off. The Bottom Line If you want to keep your relationship intact,
If your eyes are wandering toward the mother, it usually means there is a "spark" missing in your primary relationship. Work on reigniting the chemistry with your girlfriend. Focus on the things she has that the mother doesn't —their shared history, her specific personality, and your future together. If the mother has aged exceptionally well, it
Dressing up specifically when you know the mom will be there? Comparing them out loud (even as a "compliment")?
Before you panic, determine if you are actually attracted to the mother as a person, or if you are simply using her as a benchmark to judge your girlfriend.
Enjoy the view from a distance, keep your mouth shut, and put that energy back into the woman you’re actually dating.