While these feelings are often internal and fleeting, the reality of acting on them involves significant social and emotional risks. Maintaining clear boundaries is essential for several reasons:
In many cases, these crushes serve as a "practice" for real-world relationships. Because the object of the crush is usually unattainable, it allows the individual to experience intense emotions without the immediate pressures of a peer-to-peer relationship. The Importance of Boundaries and Consequences
This stage often marks the first time a young person stops viewing adults solely as authority figures and begins to see them as individuals. This shift can cause confusion between feelings of respect and feelings of romantic interest.