By recognizing the signs early and prioritizing respect over ego, you can enjoy the spark of attraction without getting burned by the fire.

If one person stops laughing or begins to physically pull away, the game should end. Continuing to push past these non-verbal cues is no longer flirting; it’s harassment.

At its core, flirting is a low-stakes way to test interest. It’s a "game" because it relies on deniability. If someone doesn't reciprocate, you can easily pull back and pretend it was just a joke. This safety net is what makes flirting addictive; it provides a dopamine hit without the immediate fear of heavy rejection.